Alan Watts - Outwitting the Devil
Alan Watts elaborates on the dangers of trying to force things.
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wAGdinXZjSc
Quotes
Let's suppose [...] you are assured that, once you've become victim of this habit, it's an extraordinarily difficult thing to get rid of it and it requires intense willpower. [...] That kills you right off.
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If you're going to outwit the devil, it's terribly important that you don't give him any advance notice. [...] If you're gonna leave town and you owe lots of money, you mustn't announce that you're leaving.
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The art of the sly man, is to make no contest, but simply to leave, without one word. In other words [...], not to force things.
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If you were going to be an expert archer, you must shoot before you think. Otherwise it will be too late. You don't aim and then shoot. It's all one action.
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You're always a moment too late, if you decide first. You have to act, and decide, simultaneously. [...] If you decide before you act [...] the devil will catch you.
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Try as you may. You go on and on and on and on trying [...] to release the bowstring without thinking first to release it. But then, strangely enough, one day the thing happened. He did it.
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And this is involved in our learning of almost all techniques: That we work and work to achieve that final point of perfection. And it doesn't come, it doesn't come. And then one day, it happens.
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It is not that we have practiced it so often, that it suddenly becomes perfect. [...] What happens is, that we practiced so often, that we find out, we can't do it.
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And it happens at the moment you know, you can't do it, when you reach a certain point of despair, when you know that you're the one weird child who will never be able to swim. At that moment you're swimming.
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Because, the desperation and the total inability to do it at all, has brought you to a point, which we might call "don't care". You stopped trying. You stopped not trying (= trying to get it that way).
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You just have arrived at the insight, that your decision, your will, doesn't have any part in the thing at all. [...] It can come only, when an attempt to act from the ego center, has been revealed to be completely futile.
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There's just the process. And all that you are, is part of the process. [...] He simply sees, that all that he is [...], was something that the entire process was doing.
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